Epictetus Phrygian ex-slave; the Stoic who most lived what he preached. His central distinction structures all Stoic ethics: what depends on us (eph’ hêmin: thoughts, impulses, judgments, desires) vs. what does not depend on us (ouk eph’ hêmin: body, fame, wealth, health). Inner freedom is absolute and cannot be taken by any master. “Bear and forbear” (anékhou kai apékhou).
Born in Hierapolis, in Phrygia (modern Turkey), Epictetus spent his early years as a slave in Rome, in the service of Epaphroditus, a freedman connected to Nero’s court. It was in this setting that he studied under the Stoic Musonius Rufus, from whom he inherited the conviction that philosophy is worth only as much as it transforms conduct. He is said to have been lame — a condition he reportedly mentioned with serene indifference, a living example of his doctrine that disability touches the body, not the prohairesis, the will that chooses. Freed later in life, he devoted himself to teaching in Rome until the emperor Domitian expelled the philosophers from the city; he then moved to Nicopolis, in Epirus (northwestern Greece), where he founded a school that drew disciples from far and wide, including young men of the Roman elite.
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